This mother who believes she has FASD herself has raised three children. She used alcohol through one pregnancy and abstained through the other two. The child of the ‘alcohol’ pregnancy is now experiencing very marked behavioural problems and has developed an alcohol dependency; the other two children are ‘A’ students. She herself is the child of alcoholic parents and was adopted as a baby into a very loving family. Even though she had the best of upbringings she always felt different.